With non-spankos
In my previous blog post, you read about how my love for spanking started. Now it’s time to talk about my first time being spanked, mostly by non-spankos (people who don’t share the same fetish but were open to trying).
When I was 16, I had my first real boyfriend. He was a few years older and just a sweetheart in general. After a few months of dating, we started to talk about playing with each other and having sex (which would be my first time). We started with the basics: Blowjobs and fingering. It was nice, but I just couldn’t stop my curiosity about spanking. One night, I brought up this topic and he was somewhat surprised. He had never thought about it before, but wanted to please me, so he was open to the idea. I asked him to put me over his knee and smack my butt. He did, in a soft and sweet way. Since this was the first time I actually got spanked, I got incredibly wet from it and absolutely loved every second… But I wanted more. He would finger me after, and I would please him with my mouth, it was amazing, but I was missing something. After a few times like this, I bought a wooden hairbrush and asked him to use this on me. He was a little hesitant but did use it to smack my bare butt. I loved it so much, but he didn’t smack too hard - he was afraid to hurt me. And it’s true that I got a few dark spots and he actually made my skin bleed a little due to the lack of warm-up. Although I personally didn’t mind, he found it difficult and preferred to do it with his hand. After that one time he just continued to spank me with his hands, but not nearly as often as I would have wanted.
After a few months, we ended our relationship. The two partners I had after him were not as willing to experiment, so while we had great sex, there were no spankings for me.
Then I finally met a new one, he was 12 years older and absolutely the more dominant type of men. I again asked if he would be okay with spanking me, and he was very open-minded and more than willing to try. With him, I actually got spanked a few times longer than 5 minutes. Mostly over his knee, sometimes in doggy style in front of him - always nude. I started to love it and my body started to need it. I bought spanking toys and he loved trying them all out on me. If we got into a discussion and I wouldn’t stop whining about x or y, he would start spanking me, we would have amazing sex, and the discussion was done. It was the beginning of my real spanking need, but it was always evolving around or ending in sex. Nothing wrong with that - but I was still curious about the disciplinary part of spanking.
My first real punishment spanking ended up being almost 5 years later, when I was 26. You can read about this experience in detail in my next blogpost! :)
When was your first spanking?
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